
Separation Readiness Diagnostic™
Clarity Before Separation Begins
Know Before You Act
You may be thinking "Should I Separate"? The Separation Readiness Diagnostic™ guides you through Stage 1 – Clarity of the Proven Process. It’s a values-based tool built on integrity, structure, and calm action to help you see where you stand before you move.

Most people reach the edge of separation feeling overwhelmed. This framework replaces confusion with clarity. It helps you identify what’s stable, what’s fragile, and what needs urgent support. By mapping safety, communication, and finance together, you create structure instead of reaction. Used within a Strategic Readiness Call, the Diagnostic grounds your next step in facts, not fear — preparing you to enter containment with calm confidence.
What the Separation Readiness Diagnostic™ Covers
Finding Clarity is the first stage of Anchor and Light’s Proven Process. This diagnostic assesses your readiness across emotional, legal, and family/financial systems, ensuring you pause before rushing into costly or premature action. You gain not just awareness, but a structured foundation that can be safely forwarded to professionals.

Locate Pressure Points
Identify emotional, financial, or legal stress areas to direct professional help.

Assess Readiness
Rate your stability across key domains before acting or disclosing decisions.

Align Next Steps
Convert insight into calm, values-based actions.
What You Gain from the Separation Readiness Diagnostic™
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Clear picture of readiness before separation.
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Early insight that reduces risk and cost later.
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Shared language for lawyers, therapists, and mediators.
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Values-based foundation for containment and recovery.
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Confidence to act safely, not reactively.
Download Diagnostic Tool — “Have I Collapsed?”
Use this short self-check to reflect on your current stage. It’s a court-safe, values-based download to help you stabilise before taking action
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